Help Kayla

The first few times I did this translation I had many problems with it. Finally I decided to skip the most difficult parts where Maylor was extremely hard to understand. Once I did I realized that he was either trying to get the words out with frustration or extreme emotion, and they just were not coming out properly. As I skipped the rough parts, I found that he just continued on with what he was saying until he got out what he wanted to really say.

In the translation Maylor talks to me about how I react to Kayla negatively sometimes. I have a son who is 20 years older than Kayla, so I guess you could say that she is a little spoiled, being the only child at home. I have taken on the role more as a disciplinarian with her and see now how it may have a negative impact on her future if I do not change. So this transcript makes me rethink my past philosophy, and puts me on a path of trying to treat her with love when she acts up instead of verbally scolding her.

I thank Maylor for putting me on the right track. She is six years old, and if I change now she may be more inclined to draw on the loving part of our relationship rather than what she has mostly been getting until this point.

Finally I would like to say that knowing and saying that you know you need to change to have spiritual growth is easier than actually accomplishing it. Both Linda and I know that there are many things that we have learned that teach us the right path to heaven, however we constantly find ourselves falling short. We also know that even though we still have trouble following God's direction, He still continues to support and guide us when we get off the path.

Maylor said:

If you want Kayla a good life, then love her Ryan!

Apparently, as we look at the men, and it is not just you,

this is something God wants.

He wants a house where the father is a helping spirit for

the girl and her mentor.

Remember Ryan, you're lucky you have Kayla.

A man will make women for life.

You can help make them a better parent and they can learn

from you with your help.

Help Kayla and she will see how giving is an enjoyment

philosophy.

This philosophy can help you more when her favourite things

get messed up.

Then she can revert to your past lovingly.